Ever need a great cupcake? Where would you get such a delicious treat in Phnom Penh? Back home in Portland, Oregon, I would always reach out to my close friend, Joy Childress of Sweet Joyness. (She is still available for cupcakes, cookies and cakes. Check out her Instagram). But now that I’m in Phnom Penh, my alliance is with Bloom Cafe.
Bloom Cafe makes stunning celebration cakes for birthdays, wedding and parties. Enjoy a designer cupcake and the BEST fair trade coffee in their stylish cafe. Escape the bustling heat of the city and step into Bloom Cafe: a world where barista-made coffee, refreshing smoothies, cool air-conditioning and a mouth-watering range of cakes, cupcakes and cookies await.
Bloom creates the most deliciously moist, flavorsome treats housed in incredibly detailed edible art that will have your friends talking for weeks. I can attest to this – I bought some cupcakes for a birthday party and people still talk about how beautiful they were. Plus, they are well made – meaning they can survive a tuktuk ride from the bakery back home to the party. (This was something I was a little nervous about.) Whether you want a single layered cake or a gravity-defying multi-tiered creation, they’ve got you covered.
For those after a daintier mouthful, Bloom creates cupcakes unlike any other. Whether it’s a single cupcake to enjoy with your morning coffee, or hundreds of them artfully arranged, each individual piece is intricately crafted by hand and come in an incredible array of flavors.
My only word of caution is, Bloom Cafe only does cupcakes and coffee at their store. I made the mistake of thinking I could grab a breakfast treat and showed up starving. This was totally my fault but I had to run down the street and grab some breakfast before grabbing a coffee and cupcakes from Bloom.
Best of all, Bloom is a not-for-profit Social Enterprise, which means every delicious mouthful actually helps to empower and skill local women in the art of baking and decorating beautiful cakes. Bloom Cafe is a training cafe for Bloom Training Centre. A not for profit organization that provides vocational training and employment opportunities for Cambodian women.
Have you been to Phnom Penh? Where are the best places to get desserts?
Yeah! It’s February and I’m celebrating a new month and a new year. I want to apologize for not sending an update in January. But I need to be honest, January was a tough month for me. I cried 24 of the 31 days in January. (It was that bad that I was keeping track and celebrating the days I didn’t sob my eyes out). Thanks to everyone who reached out, prayed, sent encouraging words, and listened to my struggles this past month. Your support did not go unnoticed.
I’m kicking off February in a new home! Yes, I’ve moved twice now since coming to Cambodia, but I’m confident that this will be Bullet and my home for a long while. For starters, it has real beds! (I’ve been sleeping on floor mat for the past three months.) A kitchen – with a stove AND fridge. (Yes, my last place didn’t have a kitchen, which made hosting – and my budget crazy.) I’ve got an awesome new neighbor across the hall from my new church and have had more people over in the past weekend then I ever had visit me in my old place combine. All these things make it such a joyful home. Not to mention it’s half the cost of my previous rent and I still have a guest room for those who want to come visit me!
I just finished a five week intensive language class. This class has been a real joy to participate in. Not only have I made an awesome friend who lives in my area and is involved in rescuing girls as well, but the amount of language I’m learning is really amazing. It has also opened more doors for me at Daughters, since I come from language class right at lunch time and sit down with some of the Khmer staff and go over the new vocabulary I’ve learned – like pointing out all the colors or describing what someone is wearing. Even though I’m still using a translator (Lino) for my Sponsorship project at Daughters, I’m getting to practice my Khmer with the girls we do interviews with. I can now ask their name, age, and about their family on my own. Lino has been a huge source of encouragement in this process and always has me repeat what the girls have said and then clarifies anything I might have missed. There is definitely a lot of laughter involved both in class and with the girls. I found out early this morning I passed Level One. I’m looking forward to a five week break before jumping into Level Two. I’m praying the funding to continue my language education will arrive in the next five weeks.
I’ve got a new boss at Daughters, his name is Martin, he’s German, has been working at Daughters for two and half years and has the same business focused mind I do. We are kicking off our overseas sales project together with some pilot shipments. If anyone is interested in joining the pilot program and getting some cute Daughters products. Please let me know. Also, if you have any connections to shops in the USA who might be interested in selling our products, please let me know.
I also had a friend come to visit from Portland, Oregon in January. It was fun to show someone around my new home town and give them a break from rainy / cold Portland. I definitely learned a lot about hosting international guests and how to be prepared for cultural differences.
How is 2017 almost over?! I’ve been spending a lot of time on reflecting on how hard (job changes, saying good bye to friends, and the political environment back home) and how good (arriving in Cambodia, awesome good bye adventures, and sweet moments of joy) 2017 has been to me and those close to me. How was 2017 for you?
Bullet is adjusting well to his new live here in Cambodia. (Which basically means he’s in the process of shedding his Portland winter coat. I think he should be naked by now, but it’s still coming off of him in handfuls). He’s been on mission to the neighborhood. Most Asians are a little scared of dogs (especially big ones), but a few brave kids have enjoyed petting him and getting him to give them high fives. I’m glad my title of “Bullet’s Mom” still holds true here in Cambodia!
I’m been so blessed to share my life here with Beckie, who visited for nine days. She got the chance to relax after wrapping up the Thorns season and explore her first Asian country. We even made the trek up to Angkor Wat for a little holiday outside of Phnom Penh. I’ve got another friend coming to visit in January, so if anyone would like to send belated Christmas cards or order some Daughters products please let me know and I can facilitate the transfer. (Also, if anyone wants to come visit in 2018, please let me know. I’d love to have more visitors!)
I’m looking forward to the Advent season, which I know is almost over. It’s a little tricky to get into the Christmas mood when you live in a Buddhist country that celebrates the consumeristic version of the holiday while wearing flip flops and t-shirts. How was I ever such a big skier?!
Work at Daughters has been good. I’m continuing to work on the sponsorship program. We’ve conducted five of the 13 interviews so far, these moments are some of the best parts of my job at Daughters. My exercise class continues to be a source of laughter with the women who attend. We continue to talk about healthy body image and I attempt to practice my counting in Khmer during our work out sessions. (Side note – I start formal Khmer language class in January 2018!) I’ve also taken on another project around the Operations Centre – painting! We’ve been able to secure the building for another 10 years, which is pretty unheard of in Cambodian culture, so I’m leading the charge with a Khmer male staff team of organizing and communicating the new paint colors, room-by-room. So far we’ve tackled the Training Room and Day Care Center. It’s amazing how much clean paint can improve the feeling of a room.
Shameless plug, as 2017 wraps up, if you are looking to make a last minute tax-deductible donation, please consider supporting my self and my work via Oaks Parish (PDX home church) or Daughters directly. Respond to this email and I can send you additional information on either option.
Below are some prayer requests. Again, I really love hearing from everyone back home. I hope you have some peaceful and relaxing moments both with Christ and with your family and friends this holiday season. Please send me an email and let me know the highlights (and lows) of 2017 for you.
I would really appreciate you joining me in prayer in the following ways:
A new roommate / personal finances with the House of Healing. My roommate decided to move back to the USA so I’m on the hunt for another one to help share the burden of renting.
For more friends my own age / outside my work space. I’m trying to find professional networking events to attend, reach out to other NGO groups, etc. If you know anyone living in Cambo, please let me know. I’d love to grab coffee with them.
After three months of being separated, Bullet and I are finally back together. Bullet Is Here! This wouldn’t have been possible without the help of my amazing friend, Beckie, who signed up to watch him for 6 weeks and ended up having him for three months. Long story short, I made a last minute decision to fly home and grab Beckie and Bullet. I spent 72 hours in PDX and 60 hours traveling/flying in less than a week. BUT IT WAS TOTALLY WORTH IT.
Our adventure included:
Personally meeting the Captain of a United flight from SFO to SIN.
A 17 hour flight where Bullet was a champ and just slept the whole time.
Being denied a 2 hour flight in Singapore because I “wasn’t blind”.
Four Singapore staff members + United online helping us get rebooked.
Another traveler coming to pray for us.
A few tears.
Lost luggage (we got it the next day).
Beckie and Bullet’s first tuk tuk ride.
Walking through “Nothing to Declare” in Cambodia without being stopped with a 70 pound dog. Literally the easiest part of the entire trip.
I had the chance to “surprise” speak at my church, Oaks Parish, on Sunday on the topic of “Comfort and Joy” where I shared how being a missionary you are called to be uncomfortable – the heat, the language barrier, the safety, etc. Yet God gives you so much joy in the midst of the uncomfortable. Having Bullet here snuggling with me, doing our prayer walks again, just seeing his smug face and having my best friend here for the past 48 hours has filled me with such joy.
Thank you to everyone who prayed, checked in and asked questions.
How are you doing? Let me know what’s going on in your life.
I spent most of Thursday morning in our office, hugging my fellow staff members and explaining the significance of the day. Why it is so important for Americans. “Today is a national holiday in America. It’s a day where you spend time telling people you love how thankful you are to have them in your life. I am thankful for you.” Then answered a lot of questions about turkey and Black Friday. I’m a little sad that American consumerism is a bigger deal here than spending a day being thankful. It was also my first Thanksgiving not watching any sports and having to work – granted only a half day.
My roommate/co-worker posted this on her Facebook wall:
With the time zone difference today is Thanksgiving in Cambodia. Walking to breakfast this morning I was about to turn onto a side road when I heard someone yell “Happy Thanksgiving!” I turned around to find Jenna the only other American on staff walking towards me to give me a hug. I stopped and realized how rare that greeting is today. I said, “Happy Thanksgiving!” We hugged and just stood there for a moment.
Speaking of work, most of my Thanksgiving morning was spent interviewing two girls to collect their testimony of their life before and after coming to Daughters. There were a lot of tears – from the girls, myself, and our translator. It really set the tone of how good God is to each and every one of us and how He is working in the lives of so many here in Cambodia. Definitely one of those moments where you go into the meeting thinking you are helping someone else out and you end up leaving the meeting feeling like instead they poured into your own soul.
I was blessed to get to celebrate TWO Thanksgivings this year. The first one was with a group of missionaries who I was connected with via Oaks Parish / Imago Dei back in Portland.
On actual Thanksgiving, Ruth, the Founder of Daughters / my next door neighbor, who is British, hosted her first Thanksgiving (and second ever Thanksgiving) for a bunch of Americans. I was so blessed to eat even more turkey. This turkey was extra special to me since I bought it frozen at a local super market and then road it down the streets of Phnom Penh, a little worried it would fall out of my front basket and what the protocol would be for rescuing it from the ground! Additional fun fact: Turkeys defrost WAY faster in Cambodia.
I think the thing about being an expat is learning about your new home culture. I’m not going to lie, it was fun to flip that learning session for a day and share about my own culture to those who wanted to learn more.
“It’s a day where you spend time telling people you love how thankful you are to have them in your life. I am thankful for you.”
I am thankful for you.
Wishing you a (belated) blessed Thanksgiving with family and friends. How did you celebrate this year?
Hospitality is huge for me. I love welcoming people into my home and giving them a place to rest. This includes my love of handmade soaps and candles. I’m still trying to figure out local prices – like I can get a four pack of factory made soaps here for $1.20USD. Which works, but isn’t “homey” to me. I recently was exploring the F.C.C. (really famous restaurant here in Phnom Penh) and found this:
Cute little soaps with this message on the back of them:
The Bumblebee Group (Cambodia) works to empower Cambodians to determine their own future through employment and education opportunities. We produce luxury soaps and beauty products as well as soaps specifically designed for hygiene in the developing world. We also operate a homestay for young interns and visiting team members, and a custom tuktuk tour company. Profit from these ventures fund our free education program. “Eat honey, my child, for it is sweet and good to eat. Wisdom and knowledge are like honey – if you find them, you will have hope for your future.” – Proverbs 24:13-14
While this soap is a little more expensive ($4/bar) it supports local Khmer through education and vocational training. Plus, it smells great! I’m getting so many compliments on this soap I’m going to get a few more bars as gifts!
Bumblebee Cambodia Soap is part of the Bumblebee Cambodia social enterprise group. Their soaps feature premium virgin coconut oil made in Cambodia by Coco Khmer, Italian olive oil and silky smooth Australian castor oil. They blend the finest essential oils from Asia and around the world. 100% of their product sales are reinvested in the social mission of Bumblebee Cambodia Soap.
I picked up two bars – Heaven Scent (currently in my main flood bathroom) and The Healthy Hippy – just in case my guests or myself pick up some weird skin bug. Like I said I picked my soaps up at FCC on Sisowath Quay. Less than a block away from Daughters Visitor Centre.
Know any other social good businesses based in Phnom Penh? Leave me a comment below and let me know. Thanks!
I’ve started a list of socially good businesses I want to check out during my time here in Cambodia. A new friend recommended I check out Jars of Clay, near the Russian Market. Jars of Clay is a family orientated cafe which operates as a social enterprise providing sustainable employment for many disadvantaged and at-risk young Khmer women.
Established in 1998 by Barbara Neale, a missionary from the United Kingdom and five young women who were equal shareholders in the business. Jars of Clay Cafe was founded on Christian values, with a strong social mission to help vulnerable young women from various backgrounds, like needing reintegration into a safe workplace setting after being rescued from human trafficking or prostitution.
This is the part of the story that I love. In 2007, Barbara handed the business over to the Khmer staff who were existing share holders in the business. Since then the business has continued to flourish under the Khmer management team. They even offer access to educational scholarships to their staff members. From those humble beginnings, Jars of Clay now has over 20 Khmer staff and two locations. One in Toul Tom Poung (a one block walk to the Russian Market) and Phnom Penh Thmey (near the airport).
Jars of Clay’s motto is, “Always with love.” And has the following values:
We are: Local Cambodian owned and managed.
We offer: Healthy, tasty, and affordable home cooked foods.
We employ: Vulnerable and disadvantaged women.
We give: 10% of profits to support local NGOs.
We exist: To provide great food in a friendly atmosphere – serving their customers always with love.
We went for brunch. I had the full American breakfast and a Khmer coffee. My roommate got the build your own sandwich on a bagel that she said was really good. I heard that most people come here for the desserts. So I’ll definitely be back. Another great thing about Jars of Clay is it’s one block from the Russian Market, a big tourist attraction here in Phnom Penh. You could easily use Jars of Clay as your pre (or post) meet up spot.
Have you ever been to Cambodia? What social good places would you recommend to check out?
At #321 Sisowath Quay (aka the Riverside) in Phnom Penh, there is an awesome shop / cafe / spa called Daughters of Cambodia Visitor Centre. Here you can learn all about the amazing work Daughters is doing in the city of Phnom Penh and the Kingdom of Cambodia.
Launched in 2010 to provide training for their clients (term used for women leaving the sex industry and gainfully employed by Daughters) in customer service industries. There are 20 clients currently employed at the Visitor Centre, with positions ranging from head chef to business manager to barista. With the additional opportunity for visitors and tourists to support Daughters and learn what the organization does to support the freedom of women (and their families) leaving the sex industry.
The Boutique is located on the ground floor of the Visitor Centre and showcases all the clients’ beautiful work. Every item sold in the Boutique is produced at Daughters Operations Centre, located in the heart of Phnom Penh’s red-light district. It’s at the Operation Centre where young women and men who were formally trafficked into the sex industry are able to start a new life. (This is also my main office, where I go to work most days.)
Daughters beautiful products include fashion accessories, t-shirts (for men, women and children), children’s toys, accessories, jewelry, home furnishings, wooden ornaments and Christmas decorations. (I’m slowly decorating my new apartment with Daughters products. Right now my favorite thing is the 4th of July bunting they have. I’ve got a little bit of America hanging in my room.)
The Sugar N Spice Cafe offers a cool, relaxing environment in which to enjoy a respite from the Phnom Penh heat and dust, with a cup of premium coffee or a refreshing fruit smoothie. Treat yourself to an indulgent brunch or lunch, or a sumptuous homemade treat, like the famous gooey, chocolate browning.
(I’m currently in the process of eating my way through the entire menu. My current favorite item is the chicken quesadillas. This is the only place in Phnom Penh that serves homemade salsa and guac so far.)
The ambiance is unbeatable, with a serene, stylish, interior design overlooking the tranquility of the Tonle Sap River. The cafe has free wifi, air conditioning and unbeatable prices.
At the Hands N Feet Spa, weary travelers in need of some relaxation will find just what they are looking for. They offer an array of manicures, pedicures, and massages for the hands, feet, head, and shoulders.
Daughters of Cambodia exists to empower those trapped in the sex industry in Cambodia to walk free and start a new life, with healing, dignity, and the means to prosper. Daughters of Cambodia aims to help at least 100 girls each year to permanently walk free from sex-work, and to experience psychological healing and quality of life. They teach their clients how to sustain their new life-styles in non-institutional settings, and provide recovery programs including social work, counseling, medical treatment and life-skills classes.
“In that brothel I felt I was in hell and would never get out, I thought I would die there and never return home. It was beyond my belief that I had become a sex worker. I felt so hopeless, so worthless, without value. I stayed locked in that brothel for one year.”
They are motivated by the belief that Jesus is the Light and the Hope for the World. Isaiah 61: 1-3 summarizes the ministry of Jesus Christ and says, “the Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners….to comfort all who mourn…to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”
Commercial sexual exploitation of children and young women and men in Cambodia has escalated over the last decade into what is now an “industry”. In Cambodia, there are several key factors that lead to a girl entering the sex industry, and once there, it is hard for her to leave:
Social stigma and lack of education reduce alternative job options.
Children want to support their parents financially in order to pay back the debt of being born.
Loss of hope is off-set by the belief that she will earn a better re-incarnation through sacrificing her life to support her family.
Victims are unwilling to live in a shelter due to the loss of dignity/choice and the need to retain existing support networks and family relationships (collectivist-society).
Our clients come to us voluntarily because they are looking for life-change. We are not a shelter and our approach is non-institutionalization. Clients choose where they wish to live, and most choose to remain in the community, where they can maintain relationships with their families and friends.
Instead of creating dependence, we empower our clients, building their internal capacity and providing the external resources they need to change their own lives within their cultural and social contexts. We seek to create changes that are internal, voluntary and sustainable — not imposed. Long-term success is achieved when a client remains out of the sex industry for the rest of her life, supporting herself through dignified, rewarding work and achieving psychological and social health.
Daughters had a dedicated, talented and incredible team of Khmer staff who are assisted by a small number of skilled foreign volunteers, all of whom are passionate about the cause. They work in departments of social services, medical clinics, production of business, design, retail, administration, communications (me!), and finance.
This is it! I made it! I mean, I guess the journey is really just beginning. BUT I AM HERE! In Cambodia, working, making friends, and learning a ton!
I landed in Cambodia on Friday evening, spent the weekend in a dazed, meeting new people, trying to figure out connections, trying not to get lost, etc.
Then on Monday, I went to work for the first day. The first couple of hours were pretty typical, trying to remember people’s names, roles, where the bathroom is, etc. Then we had church.
Daughters offers church on Monday mornings for the Clients (the term we use for women leaving the sex industry). I walked in with the Staff team and a few minutes later, all the Clients came in and I realized it, “These are my people. This is why I’m here.” The entire service was in Khmer so I pretty much just spent the hour glowing, sneaking glances at these women, the Staff, and thanking God for this calling. I’m still in awe of that moment.
Since my first Monday, I’ve managed to get lost a few times going to work. (Trust me I’m a lot better now.) I’ve managed to get WIFI at my apartment, which is insanely helpful when you are trying to learn a new location, language, and keep in contact with family and friends. I’ve made a close group of friends, which really embody the “froommate” vibe. They are constantly inviting me over to hang out and eat with them. For that, I’m extremely thankful. I think I’m really settling into life here.
Work is going well. I’m working on three grant proposals, a photoshoot, reviving our Instagram channel, and marketing to local hotels. Plus, I’ve managed to make a few friends at work and enjoying eating Khmer lunch with them most days.
Below are some life updates and prayer requests. Thanks again for being part of my amazing team. Please write me back and share what is happening in your life. As much as I love being in Cambodia, I do get homesick and I do crave knowing what is happening in your lives back home. I would also love to answer any questions you might have about Cambodia, Daughters, life here, etc. I look forward to hearing from you.
I would really appreciate you joining me in prayer in the following ways:
Health / Housing – I’ve been “sick” since I landed in Cambodia. I think it’s a combination of all the dust and the fact that my apartment doesn’t have A/C, so my little asthmatic lungs are working so hard even when I’m sleeping. I’m praying about finding a new place to live.
Bullet / Beckie – Looks like they will be coming out for Thanksgiving! Anyone else want to come and help Bullet move in? I’m still waiting on my work visa to come in so I can finalize plans. I miss him so much! Beckie has been great at sending me updates and I go back and forth being really happy how happy he is, really jealous of Beckie, and really nervous about him living here.
Friends / Moto – I’m hoping to expand my friendship circle to more than just co-workers. I believe I need to get a moto (think scooter) to get some more independence and easier travel. It’s dangerous to walk at night so I need to take a tuk tuk which is also risky. If I have a moto, I can just scoot to where I need to go to meet up with people.